20 Comments

Here's your column #3; turn these posts into a book proposal for a memoir. Just saying.

Expand full comment

At some point this year you and I need to talk about your self publishing knowledge. You know so much stuff Charlotte!

Expand full comment

I would love to talk about it with you any time!

Expand full comment

Yes Charlotte, I totally agree! I have been dropping hints to Celi to do this as well. I think she is well on her way! Happy New Year to you and yours! xo Diane

Expand full comment

I don’t know. Memoirs include other people and our stories are all intertwined. It is hard to tell one’s own stories without betraying the confidence of another. We’ll see

Expand full comment

She is well on her way, even with those doubts! (Part of being a writer.) Happy new year!

Expand full comment

An Instagram meme "2023 was a weird year because I was somehow living my best life and worst life at the same exact time" nailed my 2023 but also made me realise that imbalance is a reasonable expectation we often overlook. For 2024, and hopefully the rest of my days I want to look more kindly upon myself and self-judge my successes, failures, detours, swings, roundabouts, pauses... all as accomplishments.

Expand full comment

Yes - exactly that. All of it is intertwined into the journey that has brought us here to this moment. Wonderful !

Expand full comment

Fabulous photos. I tried to pick a favourite but just couldn't. I like listing my successes and my failures (which are just delayed successes for the most part) And this poem spoke to me as it's my life!

Don't fight it too hard

Fail at it then fail some more

Success comes from falls

Thanks for sharing your photos, thoughts and life with us. Green eyes are the best!

Expand full comment

Good morning Darlene and Happy New Year!! I am quite liking giving myself permission to make little poems.Not a poet though!

Expand full comment

I beg to differ. We are all poets inside!

Expand full comment

Amazing post Celi! I don't have a spreadsheet, but I'm getting out my journal to record my successes and failures as well, and where I go from here into the amazing, new year, 2024! Happy Happy New Year Fellowship of the Farmy!!!

Expand full comment

If we really examine a failure we get to find where it has shot off into the success. Maybe just intentional learning from a failure is the success.

Expand full comment

As infants, we learn from our failures. We keep trying and failing and learning. I want people around me who never stop trying. They make life interesting.

Expand full comment

That is the best!! To surround yourself in people who never stop trying. I really like that. Happy New Year Jim

Expand full comment

Happy New Year to you and all the animals around you.

Expand full comment

I love this so. much! the perfect way to end one year and begin another, always another chance at everything.

Expand full comment

There sure is. Always another chance if we choose to take it. Thank you so much for a wonderful year, Beth!

Expand full comment
Comment deleted
Jan 1, 2024
Comment deleted
Expand full comment

Yes!! As will we all. And though it is hard, if you feel relief when you make a decision like that then it is the right one. The right decision. Looking forward to seeing whats next!

Expand full comment
Comment deleted
Jan 1, 2024
Comment deleted
Expand full comment

Yes - starting a project is absolutely a success. I think we need to careful how we judge failures too. Is that something we need to jump into? I mean how will we quantify our failures.

Expand full comment